he sat next to me for his break. i’m taking that as a sign.
I think I understand that, but if queer means liking people of the same gender, and straight is people of a different gender. And you are genderqueer, does that mean you just like other genderqueer people? That’s where I get confused. Again sorry.
“Queer” is not for anyone who identifies as cisgender to define.
“Queer” doesn’t solely refer to someone’s sexuality.
If you asked me my sexuality, I would say I am queer.
That doesn’t necessarily mean that I am attracted to only people of my gender.
I am attracted to all genders. My sexuality is queer.
My gender orientation is genderqueer. Which just refers to *for most people who interact with me* that my pronouns are not “she/hers”.
My gender orientation says NOTHING about my sexuality. I think that is where you are getting confused. Stop trying to link “queer” to a specific definition and I think things will make more sense to you.
This whole subject confuses me, sorry.
I identify as genderqueer, which means that for ME PERSONALLY i prefer the use of gender neutral/non binary pronouns, like “they/theirs” or “zi/hir”.
this has nothing to do with my chosen partner’s gender identity.
this has nothing to do with who i want to have sex with.
this has everything to do with my gender identity.
my personal gender identity.
gender identity =/= sexual orientation
and for me, they have little to do with each other.
i know i mean like nothing against hets but i want everyone to know i’m queer from the get go ya no ya nawimsayin??
it means as a survivor and for my survival, i don’t need to answer your crap questions. that’s what it means.
TW: rape culture